Happy birthday Faruq Rifqi..mama really proud of you..since the day you were born...
My 1st preggie diary..
29Jan 05 - Got married to dearest hubs..
Around Feb05 - Went to Korea jalan2 coz hubs were working outsation there. He left one week after the wedding. (Time nie tak perasan langsung preggie)
March05 - This time hubs dh balik..I went to my 1st checkup coz I didn't get my mensus right after wedding..tgk2 dh preggie okeh... mmg 0 mummy's knowledge..
May 05 - Abah passed away... :(
Jun-July 05 - Bz with final project presentation..angkut pc ke hulu ke hilir kt UNITEN nun..
Sept 05 - My graduation day ( Time nie dh 8months preggie...gambar convo sgt buruk..huhuh~)
20 Oct 05 - Admitted around 2pm, coz dat day was the EDD. Time nie langsung tak sakit..Managed to get single room lega skit...Ingatkan nk relax2 watch tv b4 labour..tgk2 during the same day Paklah's wife passed away..so no tv programs at all except for non-stop reciting Yassin and Al-Quran that makes me more nervous. Owh dat time was also fasting month..
At 5pm, Faruq Rifqi was born at KPMC Kajang.. :D 4kg okeh..rabak...huhuh~
Flash back the time when he still inside my tummy, I didn't face any morning/evening sickness at all..Maybe sbb terlampau bz dgn abah meninggal lagi time tu..tak terfikir..My appetite was really mcm gajah ok...everynight pun nk supper mamak (roti telur + neslo ice)..
During confinement pun sgt la mencabar..nasib baik tak meroyan hehehe..
As soon after I gave birth to him, I was bleeding.. I tot it was normal...so the day after.. I discharged and went back to MIL for confinement. Time tu dh start tak selesa coz I didn't get use to stay in small apartment.. (mengada kan?) with a lot of ppl inside.. Ye la time tu..my MIL, my SIL, and my BIL dgn wife. Campur me, hubs and Faruq dah 7 org..packed giler...My MIL also didn't really know how to take care of confinement ladies I guess coz Faruq is his first grand child...
That time I was bleeding like hell smpai pucat2 muka..I tot it was normal..until one day (dat day was my 5th day of confinement), my bro came visited me accompanied with my SIL..Once he saw me pale mcm mayat, he called Acik, my sis..She then came immediately with Ucu and terus bwk me to Selayang hospital for further check-up.
Yup, the uri still inside me that caused my bleeding. The size was 6cm that time..and the doctors told me..I can die in less than 48hours if I don't realize it at all.
I undergone D&C procedure immediately..(tp govt hospital immediately dia kena que gak..huhu~) It took about 20minutes only but my sis, Ata said it took them 4 hours waited outside the operation theatre..oh my..dat time dh la fasting month kan...but lucky me to have such a protective and caring siblings that always there for me..love u all..
Yg paling terharu..(this is what Ata told me), my hubs was standing in front of the OT for 4hours straight.. I remembered time I kluar dr OT dh pukul 9lebih mlm time tu...Org lain dh pegi break fast..dia je tak makan minum lagi..Setia menanti gitu..Thanks ayang..Dia paling takut...kesian dia..
After discharged from Selayang hospital, I then continued my confinement period at Acik's house..kali nie Mat saleh style lak..Thanks a lot Acik.. A week later my other sis, Atam picked me up to continue my confinement period dkt rumah dia pulak kt Seremban..this time around baru panggil mak bidan bagai..I was so blessed to have them as my siblings...eventhough that time my mum is not really well, I did have my sisters around me..
Diorg siap mcm nk bergaduh berebut siapa nk jaga I... :D
A week after that was already Hari Raya..so we went back to Muar..there my mum already booked one more mak bidan to massage me...thanks mak...
Then, I went back to Seremban to finish off the confinement period there..
After 44days, I went back to my home in Kajang...and went for the 1st checkup after gave birth..Guess what happen pulak?? The stitches pulak terbukak dkt sebelah dlm my vagina..adoi la...so the gynae had to open all the stitches and re-stitched all back..time nie bius kt situ aje tau... T_T
Amazingly, the day after dh tak sakit lagi dh nk duduk.. :D
So, mmg byk experience I gained during pregnancy, labour and post-labour of this boy named Faruq Rifqi.
Thanks to Acik - during my confinement period at her house, everyday she went to mothercare to buy stuffs for me and Faruq.. breast pump, nursing bra etc etc A LOT.
Thanks to Atam/Rahiman - really caring during the confinement period.. My BIL Rahiman sponsored the mak bidan.... :)
Thanks to Ata/Ucu/my mum/MIL and the list goes on : 100% support to this dumb mummy..
Thanks to hubs : always there for me during that period...
And once again.. Happy birthday Faruq Rifqi...Mama loves you soo much...
