This maybe due to hormones or nervousness of the delivery and whatnot.
Today, Faruq a bit melemaskan.. buat perangai bukan2.. kalau suruh mandi ke apa..byk kali cakap pun belum tentu dia buat.
Setelah beberapa kali attempts baru berjaya mandikan dia. If saya yang mandikan, Mr hubs akan pakai kan baju and vice versa. Belum pun pakai baju, dah sibuk nk usik2 anak2 kucing kt rumah nie. Sudahlah badan dia ade rashes, tak mahulah melarat takut terkena hama kucing pulak.
Mr hubs naik atas nk ambil baju Faruq, turun-turun je terus sebat Faruq pakai jeans Faruq. Kuat. Tersentap saya. Terus rasa sedih. Dah tentu sakit. Imagine toddler's jean, ade getah yg ketatkan seluar sebelah dalam tu. Kalau terkena peha kan ke sakit?
Marah juga lah saya. Faruq diam je tahan sakit. Lepas tu terus pakai baju. Paham dah kena marah kot.
Dalam hati saya dah menangis dah. Ye lah.. susah2 kita beranak..complication after his birth pun sekarang makin kerap ulang tayang dalam kepala. Geram memang geram..tapi saya tak sampai hati nk pukul dia kuat2. Biar kita pukul dia mengajar.
Agaknya Mr hubs perasan saya marah, dia terus cool down. Terus buatkan Faruq susu. And now tengah mandi.
Tapi hati saya tetap tersentuh. :(
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Tersentuh hatiku..
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Thalassaemia
Nurse: Hello.. ini Puan Lonija? (pelat ca-ya-nun-alif)
Me: Ha?? Er.. ya..
Nurse: Saya dari Klinik C&L. Puan punye blood result dah kluar. Puan ade itu talasemia.
Me: Ha??
Nurse: Ya puan.. lagi itu Puan ade hepatitis B juger.
Me: Setahu saya dalam family saya takde yg kena Talasemia/Hepatitis B?
Nurse: Itu nanti u check dgn doctor ya.
Me: Ok, bye.
Imagine kalau, you all dapat call macam nie? Me rase mcm nk terus cari kain kapan okeh..seriously..
Dah la call time me kat office..dgn preggie mcm nie..harus la panic kan? Terus I googled everything about talasemia/hepatitis B dan harus lagi bertambah panic.. bodoh betul la nurse tu..
Lps tu me menjalani hidup resah gelisah..coz next check-up due another 2 weeks. Sebab dh tak tahan sgt..and since Mr hubs pun MC semalam, terus I pergi checkup. Tak smpai dua minggu pun...
So jumpa la Dr Loo. I asked him whether issit true I ade dua2 penyakit nie.. yela dua2 penyakit chronic. Takmau baby dlm perut nie affect jugak.. Lps tu doctor tu explain..and showed me the blood test result.. Kat paper tu langsung takde tulis talasemia/hepatitis segala..bodoh nye nurse!! Cuma my hemoglobin is very low; that resulted to hay-wired result; ie anemia. And the hepatitis tingy was due to age. Doctor tu cakap..once we get older.. our body nye resistant towards hepatitis semakin menurun. Lps deliver amik jab katanya. My body lack of iron.. I took iron seldomly.. sebab constipation..lain pulak jadinya..
Terus-terus I sound doctor tu, suruh that nurse jangan memandai call patient bagitau blood result macam tu..
So starting from that, I dah makan iron tablet tu balik..hmmm.. takpe la..biar la my a** tersumbat.. janji I dgn baby sihat..
And the doc tak abis2 suruh I deliver dkt Sunway MC. I mmg dh opted nk pergi ke Columbia Asia.. So harus mak lagi sentap..
Balik je dari check-up, we terus la pergi ke Columbia Asia nk checkout the price etc. Compared to last visit to Sunway MC, we all semalam dibawa tour keliling hospital.. segala ward kami masuk..sampai ke labour room to give me the rough idea how the hospital look like. Masa visit to SMC, tade pun siapa yg ajak..ye la we all baju biasa2 je..so maybe diorg malas nk entertain kot. So macam pencuri la dok tgk bilik dat day.
So now mmg dh buat decision nk deliver kt CA, under Dr Raja Juhaidah. She laughed out loud bila I duk bebel I rimas dgr Dr C/L asyik bercerita tentang SMC. Ye la they definitely got higher pay there. Tu la beria.. Takpe la..this is my first time deliver with female doctor..harap2 semuanya selamat.. Amin..
After check-up, I texted my sis, Atam and Ucu bagitau the actual result.. coz last Saturday during Feeya's bday, I asked around my family..mana tau kot2 ade yg kena talasemia kan..
They asked me to sue the nurse :P, ye la menakutkan orang. Even my bro, Angah nampak pissed off bila I bagitau dia about blood result.
Yang pasti, saya bebas dari penyakit2 berbahaya itu.. Alhamdulillah..
Part-time maid ke confinement lady?
Helo all,
Semalam tak dapat nk update coz MC, macam2 hal settle kan.. nanti la cerita di next entry.. (pasal talasemia, routine check-up dgn hospital).
Nak cerita pasal berpantang pulak.. (belum deliver dah cerita pasal berpantang pulak.. :P).
I am planning to stay independently this time.. meaning taknak nyusahkan my sis all. Diorg mmg willing nak jaga..like last time siap berebut.. so time confinement Faruq tu, me jadi nomad, kejap kt umah MIL kt Damansara Damai, kejap kt Ampang rumah my sis, Acik, kejap kt Seremban rumah my sis, Atam, and kejap kt Muar. So ade la tiga bidan yg berlainan..wah hebat!!
So this time around,nak jadi independent pulak plus tak smpai hati nk tinggalkan Faruq with Mr hubs lama2. Sekarang nie pun dia mcm dh start feeling2 jauh hati kot..Asyik shopping brg2 baby kan..pantang marah.. meleleh2 air mata dia..sian.. :( Setelah disurvey.. patut ke saya ambil part-time maid or confinement lady yg stay-in?
Part-time maid (Advantages/Disadvantages)
- Cheaper
- Boleh buat segala house chores
- Boleh request yg expert jaga baby and masak
- Takut terkena yg tak expert
- Kena ambik makcik urut lain. (Ade tak contact area Puchong?)
- Stay-in
http://www.apka.com.my/?lang=my&cat=1&id=4&mnu=4
Confinement lady (Advantages/Disadvantages)
- Memang tip top jaga baby and mummy la (ye ke?)
- Demanding? (ye ke?)
- Sekali dgn urut.
- Tak stay-in (charges for 7 days 8.30-6pm = from RM1050++) pengsan~
Actually to stay-in, kalau ade outsider dlm rumah, sure saya tak selesa..tapi apa nk buat..
Ade je wifey2 yg pantang tinggal sendiri2 je..bagus kan? Kita nk elakkan perkara2 tak diingini..better ade teman ye tak?
Camne yek?
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Tentang blood test..
Baru-baru nie, saya ade buat blood test. Ye la..dah nk bersalin nie.. Macam2 la kena kan?
The blood result dah kluar.. tp saya tak pergi lagi jumpa doctor..Appointment pun tatau bila.. Am a bit afraid la.. Nurse kt clinic tu dh call... Cakap mcm2 ade dalam darah saya..
Harap2 semuanya tak effect kt si kecik dlm perut nie.. sian dia..tak salah apa2 kan? Tunggu je la next appointment nanti..
Doakan saya ye kawan2!!
Dah beranak??
EH.. belum lagi... belum... Saya kebizian sekarang.. Kt office langsung takde masa nk update cerita2..padahal byk saje cerita yg boleh ditulis..
Later ya!!
Friday, February 19, 2010
Today at work
Got a lot of things to do at work. Sampai lupa nk submit MC to my TL and apply kt system. Sampai kena sound la jugak. Hohoho.. Also kena sound sebab tak fill-up Tenrox lagi for this week. Double!
Dah la I batuk macam apa.. Owh ya.. my TL oso batuk.. so we kinda berduet.. ni I tahan2.. takmo batuk bersaing2.. ekekeke..
Lunch tadi I makan beriani ayam and teh o ais... ups.. can't help it lar :D since the weather is too hot. OK blame the weather pulak..
Am thinking of going to pasar malam later with Mr hubs and Faruq. Faruq panggil Paser (mama dia la mandai ajar ajaran sesat.) It is nearby his babysitter's house. Ingat nak beli loads of ikan bilis. Nak goreng simpan stok awal2. Kot terberanak. Ade la lauk. Sementara nk call mangkuk tingkat.com tu. Tatau diorg cover Puchong ke tak. Tak sempat2 nak call.
Lepas tu nak beli rempah2 mandi tu skali and periuk batu tu. Senang standby awal2. Saya ingat nak berpantang sendiri je. Malas la nk susah2kan org. Harap2 semuanya ok.
Ok dh start batuk bersahut2 balik.. Hadoi.. sakit dada den.
Semalam MC.
Last yesterday's nite, I couldn't sleep due to coughing and stuffy nose. Dah la tu tekak rase berduri2. Rasa nk jolok je pakai tangan. It was like, bila nk lelap je..batuk-batuk. Mr hubs pulak refused to give me even Strepsil sebab dia kata perlu consult doctor whatsoever dulu.. Hadoi...Last2 tu (time tu dh dkt 4a.m), dia bagi jugak I sebijik. Baru la tertidur. Lps tu harus la tak boleh bangun. Badan macam sakit2 la itu la ini la.
But, I still bangun coz have to prepare Faruq for school kan? Mandikan, bagi dia koko krunch+milk for his breakfast. Then siap2 kan dia. Then, I told Mr hubs, I can't go to office today. Tak larat betul rasa badan. All I need the most is resting in bed. We planned to go for my routine checkup pun today, tapi ingat nak pergi petang, but since I nak ambik MC patut terus pergi pagi tu.
At first I don't mind to drive to Bandar Puteri to go to clinic alone. But tak pasal2 sentap, sebab Mr hubs suh I pergi sendiri to ATM if I don't have enough cash. Imagine je la, one preggie lady, nak pergi bank lagi, dengan demam2. I terus naik atas and baring2. Tension beb! In my mind, I was planning to go..let say afternoon session. Nak rehat dulu la... plus I got RM200 with me, takkan tak cukup kot?
So Mr hubs took Faruq to his school. Baru nak lelap, dengar his car was entering our home. Pulak dah balik!! He naik atas and told me he took EL. Pulak! Baru nk catch-up my sleep.
Since dia cuti, terpaksa la I siap2 then pergi ke gynae earlier. I was lucky coz Mr hubs booked for the appointment. So sampai2 takde la nk tunggu berjam2.
Dr Loo gave me more medicine for my throats and stuffy nose and normal supplement. He scanned the baby and told me that she's in ggod position, kepala dah turun, and according to my tummy size and shape, I'm already in my 32weeks, and the doc asked me to get ready. Anytime bebeh! (Takut). Baby weighted 2kg, and all OK, Alhamdulillah. He took my blood for some sampling and gave me admission letter, in case nk beranak, senang katanya!
He adviced me to go to Sunway Medical Center instead of Columbia Asia, coz he told me, there were a lot of complaints bout CA already... Hmmm tatau la. He then adviced us to checked on SMC, price segala. So, Mr hubs suggested us to go there after the session.
Since we both tak breakfast lagi, We went to Sunway Pyramid first. Nak makan Papparich. Am kinda like Papparich pulak dah sekarang. Mr hubs didn't allow me to drink any cold drinks and ordered hot honey lemon for me instead. Hish! Baru nk order Milo dinasour. Kekeke.. He even bought pure honey+lemon from the booth inside SP. We then went to Parkson to buy prezzies for Reyaz and Feeya, Senang. If Faruq were around, jangan harap nk belikan orang lain.
Lepas settle semua, then we went to SMC to find out about delivery packages and all. Takde package pun. Deposit 2k, normal from 4-6K, C-sect from 6-8K, emergency C-sect boleh jadi berbelas2 K.. pengsan! If deliver during public holiday, tambah another 1k. (Yang nie kena tanye awal2, coz ade private hospital yang charge double during public holiday.) Must be aware. Single room dia ok, got 2 options; standard and deluxe. Ish2.. nowaday, nak beranak pun kena ade RM, kalau tak pegi jek la govt hospital. I don't mind actually, but since Mr hubs company covers maternity and check-up bills, harus fully utilize kan? :P
Balik je dah around 3pm. Pickup Faruq then balik. I managed to take a nap..tapi kejap sangat..dua beranak tu bising..hish.. So malam tu, I cooked sambal ayam, goreng a slice of senangin dgn goreng bayam with udang. Berselera kami makan eventho nasi lembik sket..but me suka je nasik lembik. Feeling2 baby sket.
And, yup malam tadi constipated again. Adoi la nie.. bontot sakit sampai skarang..duh! Malam pulak coughing jugak like mad. Until Mr hubs bagi lagi Strepsil, then baru boleh tidur. Nak bangun tadi, my left leg pulak cramped. Adoi banyak benor dugaan. Elok je cramp baru la siap2 then nie... counting times to go back.. Tapi harus lambat coz Mr hubs yg hantar.. huhuhu~






