Sleeping strategies for your kids..

Ramai parents especially mummies yg saya kenal di alam maya menghadapi masalah ini...anak susah nk tidur. It will be quite tiring and tension too for mummies to handle. If it happen for the full time mummies, then it quite a better view rather than working mummies like me..penat tau..

So below are some tips and tricks to share between us as mummies...

Sleep strategies

by Claire Halsey

Making simple changes to bedtime routine (plus plenty of patience) can make for calmer nights.

Good sleep and good moods go hand in hand for both parents and children. Yet sleep - much sought after by parents and most resisted by children - is the most frequent cause of frustration for up to 25 per cent of parents of young children.

To make sleep changes you'll need:

• To stick to bedtimes and routines in the face of heartfelt resistance
• Large amounts of patience
• Support from those around you
• Someone to take turns handling the bedtime routine, if possible

Why children try to stay awake

A child may look and act exhausted but may still battle to stay awake. This is because children are fundamentally motivated to explore and ensure they miss nothing.

It's up to you to decide when your children should go to bed and at what time you expect them to settle to sleep. There's some variation in the amount of sleep each person needs, but on average, a five year old needs 11 hours of sleep each night.

To work out when your child should be settling to sleep, take 11 hours off the time they wake each morning. For example, if your child wakes at 7am, sleep time should be 8pm.

Routine matters

A regular bedtime routine, repeated at the same time every night, is essential for creating good sleep habits. The routine should be calm and gentle.

A sleep routine might go something like this:

• 7.30pm Offer your child a warm drink and cuddle time with you or your partner, get them to brush teeth and visit the toilet, snuggle them up in bed with a favourite soft toy and read them one or two short stories - not scary ones! Tell your child it's time for sleep.
• 8pm Dim the lights and kiss your child goodnight. At this point expect them to stop playing and stay in bed. You could stay in the bedroom or leave, depending upon the habits you've already developed.

Yg nie blh adjust sendiri ya..For instance Faruq will sleep at 11pm and wake up around 7.30-8am every weekdays and weekends at 10am. Lagi dua jam tu cover dia tidur lps balik skolah at babysitters.

Bedtime mantra

As part of your routine, it's a good idea to have a vocal cue to let your child know that it's bedtime. "Time for sleep now", "Goodnight, sleep tight" or some other repetitive saying will tell your child it's time to settle to sleep. Use this mantra instead of begging or pleading with your child, as discussions can engage your child and actually decrease the chance of sleep.

Beds are for sleeping

Put your child to sleep in the place they'll spend the night. This makes a connection for your child between their bed, their bedroom and sleep that will make going to sleep there increasingly likely.

If your child doesn't currently go to sleep in their own bed, this is one area where you may need plenty of patience as they fight against the changes in routine. Stick to your new routine and you'll get results - but it may take some time to break current habits.

Don't permit your child to fall asleep watching TV or dvds in bed - if you need to, remove the TV/dvd player from the bedroom.

Golden rules

Once your child's in bed, it's crucial they stay there. Don't give them any excuses to get out of bed unnecessarily. Make sure there's water to drink in the room, and easy access to the toilet if necessary.

Your child may try to get you to engage with them either by calling out to you, continually getting out of bed or deciding they're suddenly 'hungry'. Repeat your bedtime mantra, keep your response to a minimum (don't chat or cajole), put your child back to bed if necessary and then leave the room (making sure they have all they need).

End-of-the-day dilemmas

Evenings can be the most exciting and chaotic time of day. Everyone is arriving home sharing stories, catching up on playtime and starting the tasks of creating meals, unpacking school bags and tuning in to the family.

If you haven't seen your children all day you may be tempted into some rough and tumble play, tickling or chasing. Try these exciting games as early as you can and finish off your play with calming activities such as jigsaws, reading stories or putting teddies and dolls to bed.

Avoid computer or video games in the evenings as these stimulate your child and make sleep more difficult.

Daytime playtime

Have plenty of loving quality time with your child during waking hours. Many children stay awake in order to top up on playtime they feel they've missed during the day. If your child is finding it difficult to settle, add in one or two 20-minute playtimes during the day to make sure they've had enough of you by bedtime.

Getting the sleep everyone needs may take a week or two of effort but stick to the routine you've decided and everyone will feel better.

Article credited to http://www.bbc.co.uk/parenting/your_kids/primary_sleep.shtml

Yang paling penting kena banyak2 sabar when handling with our kids..like me sumtimes terkeluar jugak taring..smpai Faruq takut juger...tp skarang dh senang..lps je Faruq tgk Chuggington tu..kalau dia tgk mama dia buat susu..sure dia terus naik atas and baring...usually I just left him alone dlm bilik tutup lampu..tp jgn tinggal terus..kena jenguk2 selalu..

Good luck kawan2.. :)